Many women believe that men owe them something. Such a philosophy denies a relationship of trust and mutual respect. Understanding of this fact often comes to women only when it’s too late. Womendialogue.com wants women to draw experience not only from their own mistakes.
1. A wise woman is self-sufficient and does not need support
We are not talking about children – this time we are talking about you. Encountering a man, a woman begins to make demands like “feed me, clothe me and entertain me.” But in fact, the man only has to provide the children, and the woman herself has to do so. He can also provide the woman, if she wants, but in general he is not obliged to.
2. A smart woman does not ask her man to give up what he loves
Do not ask him to leave work or hobbies, to spend more time with you. A mature woman realizes that it will make the man unhappy because his life is made up of many components, and not just the job and the woman he loves.
3. She does not force the man to give up friends and family
It often happens that you can’t stand some of his friends or relatives. This does not mean that he should stop communicating with them because of you. Even if you think they have a bad influence on him. You can’t imagine how important long-term friendship is for men. All of us find our home and nearest people important, even if they sometimes irritate us.
4. An intelligent woman does not ask to share her interests
If he hates dancing, and you want to dance salsa with him, he is likely to turn down the suggestion, and you have no right to insist that he should change his mind. Just imagine, for example, that he will make you go fishing with him every week at 5 a.m. We cannot share all the enthusiasm of each other, and this does not mean lack of love or mutual respect.
5. A smart woman never forces the man to become a different person
A woman who knows the true value of the relationship, does not require that the partner should change. She falls in love with a real person and knows that people change only when they want it themselves. On the contrary, men appreciate those who take them for what they are and gently inspire them to change.
6. A wise woman does not ask her man to ignore other women
Let’s face the fact: a man can’t resist paying attention to other beautiful women. It would be contrary to his nature. (Of course, we are not talking about obvious flirtation). Women also pay attention to attractive people, and there’s no way to change it. Just treat this calmly.
7. She trusts him
A wise woman does not demand any proofs from her partner. When the relationship is built on trust, the woman will never ask the man to show his mobile phone or give her the password to his email.
A mature person would consider such actions disrespectful and would be right by doing so.
If you want calmness and harmony to prevail in your relationship, both partners should be ready to negotiate and concede in some situations.
Respect, sincerity, patience and empathy – that’s what should be strong in a relationship of two mature people.