Can a girl marry a prince? She can hope to do so, of course, but the probability whether she will marry or not is 50:50. Each of us may find a personal “prince”. He, like a man of noble blood, can sometimes wait for years before proceeding with an engagement or wedding. How can you avoid disappointment and get what you need? Let us analyze Kate Middleton’s example.
1. A properly chosen goal
It is believed that Kate Middleton hung a poster with Prince William on her bedroom wall when she was 14 years old. A few years later, she decided not to enter one of the oldest universities – The University of Edinburgh – and submitted her documents to the University of St. Andrews. This is the school where William decided to study. In 2001, the number of applicants of one of the oldest universities in the UK grew by one and a half times. Many offsprings with noble surnames competed for admission and the opportunity to study together with the future king of England.
Psychologist’s comment:
If you have really decided that this man is a perfect match for you, just be near him, meet with his friends, learn about his hobbies and interests, share them – if possible – and wait for your lucky moment.
2. A nice girl from a good family
Her parents, a former air traffic controller and a flight attendant started a recreation business and were able to save a considerable sum of money. Kate went to an excellent school and graduated from a renowned college. In addition, she always had an even and balanced cheerful character, was engaged in several sports and was interested in photography. Yet, by the standards of the royal family, Kate was a girl of no family, since her parents did not even have a hereditary title.
Psychologist’s comment:
Before you win the heart of the desired man, first of all, you should pay attention to yourself. Appearance and parents cannot be chosen, but we can form the lifestyle, education, and interests ourselves.
3. The absence of a compromising past
Before she met Prince William, nineteen-year-old Kate, of course, had dated young people. But she was not involved in any scandals, there were no compromising photos, rumors or details. Moreover, Kate was able to part with each of her boyfriends in a quiet manner and remained friends with them. She even invited two of them to her wedding ceremony. Her former admirers did not fall for the generous invitations of journalists to comment on their relationship with her.
Psychologist’s comment:
We all know the proverb that men date with one type of women, but marry others. The eternal opposition “Madonna vs Whore” is realized in a marriage in the role of Madonna (we do not mean the singer). None of the self-respecting men will allow the mother of their children to be a woman with “low social responsibility.”
4. A memorable first meeting
It is clear that William most likely had seen Kate before, but he paid attention to her just on that evening. There was a charity fashion show, and William sat in the front row near the catwalk. When Kate came out under the spotlights, all the spectators gasped: she was wearing an absolutely transparent knitted mesh dress with visible black underwear underneath it. God and genetics awarded Kate with an incredibly attractive figure, and, as the royal biographers note, since that evening William and Kate became a pair of lovebirds.
Psychologist’s comment:
If we are going to meet our fate, there will surely be a moment when we will play the leading role. To do this, it is not necessary to wear a transparent dress or take the garbage out with makeup and on heels. A good evening dress and a pair of elegant boat shoes should be in the wardrobe of every woman. In order to recommend it, one does not necessarily have to be a psychologist
Officially, Kate became William’s girlfriend in 2004, when the press found them skiing in the Alps. But she was invited to William’s adulthood a year earlier at Buckingham Palace. Apparently, despite her “common” origin, Kate managed to impress the queen-grandmother, who still builds all the matrimonial plans of the royal family.
Psychologist’s comment:
An acquaintance with the future husband’s relatives is a very exciting moment for both the girl and her partner’s parents. Therefore, if possible, it makes sense to behave as naturally as possible and always look at the young man adoringly.
6. On a break
Two years later, William answered the journalist’s questions about marriage in one interview. He was only twenty-two years old. Few people walk down the aisle at such a young age, so he asked to give him time to thirty years and then ask the question about his wedding again. All gossipers held their breath, wondering how Kate would treat such an indirect hint about a break. Couldn’t William have had the courage to tell Kate about their break straight into her eyes?
Psychologist’s comment:
Being on a break does not always mean the end of a relationship because there are emotions – new love, resentment, anger, disappointment, and there are feelings – love and affection. A different situation occurs when the relationship has really come to an end. It is better to end it with a one-on-one conversation rather than a cowardly voice message.
7. Ability to overcome difficulties
Dark times have really come for Kate – haters in social networks mocked her, calling her “an eternal bride”, journalists even christened her “patient Kate”, hinting that she treated the rumors about the prince’s intrigues patiently and with the hope of someday becoming the queen. Feminists accused her, saying that the prince literally showed his disrespect for her and begged her to remember about her dignity.
Psychologist’s comment:
Perhaps, this period in Kate’s life deserves the greatest respect, she didn’t start discussing dirty insinuations in the social networks, she didn’t throw mud at the girls whom, according to the press, William dated with. She simply lived her life. Once she got drunk with her female friends and complained about the difficulties of her relationship with William. Then she started a romance with a great fan of hers.
8. Happy End
In 2010, William finally announced his engagement and the wedding date was set – the spring of 2011. Kate Middleton had waited for the Prince of Wales for ten years before she finally won his love.
Psychologist’s comment:
In fact, the longer a couple cohabits, the more likely they are to divorce immediately after formalizing the relationship. In the case of Kate and William, this did not happen, they have been married for almost seven years and have three beautiful children. The story of Kate Middleton is very similar to a fairy tale, and the most intimate secrets of her success do not seem to ever come out.