Everyone survives divorce in different ways. This article will tell you how men cope with worrying. Below we will talk about five types of divorced men.
Hachiko
He still has not let go his ex-wife. Spoiler: he won’t let her go – he will suffer and experience drama for a long time. There will always be three people in his relationship with you: she hurt his feelings greatly, so he is simply afraid of a new relationship. He can do nothing but miss his ex-wife and compare all other women with her. In general, your shoulder will be the one to cry on.
Mr. Breaking Bad
Divorce was an occasion for him to start his life from scratch. He is trying to erase from memory everything that he had in a marriage. In his opinion, all means are good here – whether it is alcohol for the whole weekend, an extreme trip, or a new woman in bed every day.
There is a chance to save such a man. The main thing is to live through his “rehabilitation” period.
Employee of the year
He, who is unlucky in love, may find good luck in the office! This is a popular way to think, if a man dissolves in his work after a family collapse. Such men spend days sitting at a laptop, managing endless negotiations and making business dates, even on weekends. In fact, this is sublimation: business matters help him escape from the thoughts about a failed marriage.
By the way, this is not the worst scenario: such men often make a career and quickly start making good money. The question remains open whether he can slow down for you or whether he will still be returning home long after midnight, when you are already sleeping.
Misogynist
If a woman deceived / abandoned / betrayed him, this is precisely what everyone is going to do. He had a bad experience, which formed a specific pattern in his head about all the fair sex. Women are evil and deceitful. As simple as that.
Trying to break this stereotype is like smashing your head against a wall. By the way, such men often start a new relationship in order to take revenge on their ex-wife or to “pay back” for her.
Lunatic
“Where I am? Who am I? What should I do now and how to live? ”- such questions torment his wounded soul. Together with his wife, he lost all sorts of guidelines, completely falling out of life.
But the main trouble is that Lunatics, in fact, can hardly adapt to independent life. Most likely, family life did not work out just because of this – the woman was simply tired of explaining elementary things to him, as if he were a child.