Will you be together for a long time or will you part soon? At first, you don’t notice your partner’s negative traits in a relationship. Only later do you realize that you’ve gotten into trouble. Do you really want to be with him or break his heart? Below are signs that he is not your soulmate and you will soon abandon him.

You let the relationship go further than you have planned

You pictured a non-binding flirt, but everything suddenly turned around differently. It just happened so that you gave false hopes and did not get out of the situation in time. Or maybe you consciously decided: “Well, let it be for now.”

Talking about the future bothers you

He is just planning a joint vacation, and you already have goosebumps. Of course, you are not at all sure that you will still be together in August.

You avoid friends and family

You are not very interested in the man himself. What can be said about his surroundings then! His friends and relatives are simply superfluous for you: you do not plan to stay in their life for long.

You keep flirting with other men

You willingly communicate with former and potential partners. On the one hand, there is nothing criminal in this. On the other hand, this is a loud signal: the current relationship doesn’t mean much to you, and you are subconsciously looking for a fallback.

You aren’t trying hard enough

You are not making as much effort as he is. He is texting messages in the mornings, building plans, and making updates. You accept all of this favorably – that’s all.

You are not jealous of him

If you asked him who he was with, it was only because it was necessary to do so. In fact, you do not care, even if he has a whole harem.

Your heart belongs to another man

You are trying very hard to enjoy this new romance. But… As Selena Gomez sings it – the heart wants what it wants. Alas: a new man is not a cure for boredom and longing for the former one.

You’re embarrassed by his attention

Deep in your soul, you realize that you are just fooling the guy. Hence the slight discomfort when he presents you with gifts buys flowers or makes romantic moves. At this moment, you are particularly clearly aware that you will not be able to pay him back.