Society still sticks to the opinion that men prefer a bitch rather than a quiet woman who will smile affably in any situation and agree with everything the man offers. By the way, psychologists are in no hurry to support this statement and urge ladies to think properly, before starting to develop such quality as bitchiness in themselves and imagine what they would like to achieve in the long run. Let us try to understand whether it is worth listening to the opinion of experts or it is already time to switch over to the side of a bitchy person.
A bitch is akin to a predator?
Previously, a bitch was perceived as a predator, who appeared only in order to steal good men from their families. For some reason, the majority had such an idea about self-confident individuals who could conquer almost any guy with their own energy and… really take them away.
However, men voluntarily yield to temptation and shrug their shoulders guiltily as if saying “Oh, she is a bitch, so what do you expect from her?” They hurried to shift all the responsibility for their actions to the woman. And it never occurred to anyone that maybe these men would happily escape from their problems just to take a break from the boring family life and such an ideal wife.
At present, accents have shifted, and bitchy ladies do not automatically fall within the category of “divorce triggers”. They are perceived as individuals capable of working on a par with men, showing excellent results, and making a brilliant career. Their priority will always be the interests of the company and their own ones if they coincide.
Otherwise, bitches simply will not waste time on a hopeless project and will switch to something more interesting without regret. At the same time, they absolutely do not care what others think about them – they see a goal before themselves and choose the shortest way to achieve it.
Why do men pay attention to a bitch?
In fact, such relationships are equally beneficial for both women and men. There is no place for real feelings, for romance or for any distractions. There’s just this principle “You do it for me, and I do it for you”. Bitches are usually very attractive and seem to be a real ideal for men. They do not make themselves impregnable ladies, they do not talk in hints and do not try to completely capture the attention of men. On the contrary, they pay as much attention to their partner as they need to make them bored and ready to call their lover.
A bitch always has things to do, besides crying into a pillow, tantalizing herself with the thoughts about the reasons why he hasn’t called etc. They know their value and immediately designate their position in the relationship. This attracts many men – honesty and lack of jealous control on the part of women.
In addition, it often happens that bitchiness is a kind of a mask with which the lady tries to protect herself from the outside world, but in fact, she is quite a sweet and pleasant person. Although psychologists claim that women usually become stupid because of certain life circumstances rather than because of their will. For example, some of them survived an unsuccessful relationship, were offended by the whole world and therefore decided to use men at their own discretion, while others were tired of fighting injustice in the company and giving in to their colleagues just because they were men. They decided, by all means, to prove to others that they could work no worse, or even better, and would stop at nothing until they achieved what they wanted.
A few simple rules that should be learned from bitchy women:
Your interests should be prioritized
You should not compromise your interests for the sake of others. Let’s say you had ambitious plans for the evening, but the boss asked you to stay and do some urgent work, which, in fact, does not fully belong to the scope of your responsibilities. Refuse? But there is a chance to be at outs with the authority and become a candidate to be fired as soon as the opportunity presents itself.
Agree? But then you should make it clear to the management that you are a reliable employee and that additional duties can be given to you, that you will fulfill any order without complaint. Bitches are smarter, they will agree, but they will ask for additional bonuses, a promotion or an extraordinary vacation.
Career and independence above all
Naughty ladies will not sacrifice their careers and independence for the sake of some external factors or a loved one. They know that you can achieve something in this life only through hard work and, having risen to a certain height, you no longer want to be content with what you have. These women are not accustomed to depending on anyone else because they know that you can only rely on yourself and build your own bright future.
Do not waste time on men who are unworthy of you
If you have already set some criteria, you should never lower them. In other words, if you have your own idea of the type of man who should be with you, you should not listen to the advice of well-wishers and be guided by the principle “I will accept him the way he is”. Bitches choose decent, successful men who are able to make decisions and take responsibility for their actions.
Do not be jealous and not yield to the partner
Let others be jealous and start quarrels, bitchy women do not allow this to happen. First, starting a relationship, they immediately mark the boundaries and never forget about their own hobbies for the sake of a man. Secondly, they try not to fall in love more than their partner, therefore they calmly perceive the interest of other ladies in their own soulmate because they know that a man will choose them anyway.
Communicate only with successful people, not with losers
Bitches choose their social circle very meticulously and will not waste their time on unworthy, in their opinion, people. Instead, they will surround themselves with successful individuals who have something to learn from and at the same time to show support for the implementation of the next profitable project. They follow the golden rule of the rich and famous – if you want to be successful, you communicate with those who are more important than you, and losers will only pull you down and distract from achieving goals.
Appearance should always be impeccable
These ladies know that “they are always judged by their clothes,” so they keep an eye on their appearance. They would not even think of appearing in public with unkempt hair or in an inappropriate outfit or with challenging makeup. On the contrary, they will look perfect, whether it is a vacation at the seaside, a dinner with partners, a conference, or a master class.
In addition, these ladies know for sure that naturalness and femininity are fashionable, so they will not experiment with defiant dresses, hair, nails, and eyelashes, plump lips, unnatural tan or expressive makeup. They follow the trends, but they know that the classic is always a win-win.
If they see the goal, they do not see the obstacles
Instead of regretting their unfulfilled dreams and envying other people’s success, bitchy ladies will do everything to achieve their goals. Even if they have to move mountains or walk over their heads to do this. They will do this, but they will do it so effectively and naturally that they will gather applause rather than critical comments.
After all, if you constantly adapt to others, there is a chance to live someone else’s life rather than your own life, and then reproach yourself for mistakes. Therefore, if you clearly know what you want, do not delay the implementation of your ideas – otherwise, you will only be disappointed and waste time.