After 20, you suddenly realize that men of 30-40 years cease to be perceived as middle-aged and can be quite attractive. The confidence, strength, and charm that an adult person has can rarely be seen in guys of your age. But the very idea of being with him seems frighteningly strange. One of the main advantages of communicating with peers is that you have many common social and cultural ideas and a similar worldview. When a man is older than you for a decade, finding common ground is more difficult, but this can be a very rewarding experience for both of you. Regardless of whether you are only interested in flirting, dating or having a relationship with this person, there are several good reasons to start a relationship with an older man.
1. He is confident in himself
An adult feels comfortable and confident. He went through all the awkward and uncertain phases of growing up and is sexually adapted to his body and his personality. He does not need to impress you and be what he is not. He knows what he has to offer and does not try desperately to please someone. Such a person behaves naturally and is attractive due to his calmness and confidence. Among young people, you can rarely meet those who have already discovered and accepted themselves.
2. He has got experience
A young guy can have the energy, courage, and curiosity to realize any scenario in the bedroom. Although sometimes excessive fussiness in bed can mean that he has unrealistic expectations and that he has learned basic ideas about sex from porn films. An adult man has left the stages of experiments behind, which is not bad because now he knows what works and what does not. He knows how to please a woman. It’s not even about the number of partners, it’s just that he had years to perfect his skills. Women’s pleasure is very individual, but you will agree that the driver who knows the way is always more confident than the one using the navigator.
3. Romance is important for him
Of course, it is very sweet to click “Like” under each photo, write funny comments and send messages with funny pictures and meaningful songs in social networks. But a modern woman would prefer to have a romantic man in real life, and this is much more likely with an adult. It’s not that his old Nokia is not connected to the Internet or you are not registered on Facebook. The point is that an adult man knows how important personal contacts are and generally pays less attention to social networks.
4. He does not want to play games
You can rarely meet an older man who is interested in intrigues. If he is not interested in having obligations, he will say this in advance and will make it clear that he wants to sleep with you. If he is looking for more, he already knows what he wants, and he will say so. This gives the woman a sense of security and tranquility. His straightforwardness may seem rude, but you do not expect mixed signals and dirty tricks from this person. In addition, he certainly knows which girls he likes and is confident about his choice.
5. He can cope with your honesty
Not all young guys are willing to adequately accept constructive criticism of their sexual skills. Male pride is a fragile thing, it’s no wonder that it is so difficult for us to get down to talking with a partner about how bad he is in bed. An adult man understands that a woman’s body is a complex system and does not mind hearing a few tips on how to use it. He does not take remarks close to his heart and is interested in making you feel good rather than in self-asserting. This is the person whom you can tell without hesitation “Please don’t do this.” He does not mind that you are in charge, but at the same time, he is always ready to take the initiative in his own hands.
6. You are comfortable with him
Next to a confident person who does not try to seem someone else and does not hesitate about his shortcomings, you want to be the same, feel calm and safe. This ease creates a comfortable relationship, especially in terms of sex. You do not worry that he notices your shortcomings or analyzes you because you already feel that you attract him.